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MAKE UP TIPS!!

 I LOVE IT!!! You girls want to dress up, but you are on crunch time so you needs some quick tips. It takes only a few minutes for a quick make up application. I use a pink color stick, lotion, a powder compact, CLEAN blush brush, sheer lip gloss, eye liner and mascara. Pin your hair back off your face. Just for a few minutes. Don't hair spray it or anything. Apply your lotion to your face. It's a base. It moisturizes your skin. And it makes your make up look nice and smooth. No flakes or anything. Wait until it's dry (usually only a minute or so). Apply face powder. Then LIGHTLY dust your face with your clean blush brush to make sure its even. Using your finger, grab your color stick (whichever shade of pink or bronze you have chosen), rub your index finger on it, and dab your eyelids and lips. Then Rub a circle on your cheek, right by your ear/hairline. Smear it so it makes a nice even blush. I don't know how you wear your blush but I follow ONLY my cheek bone. Feel for where it is. I put in on the edge, closer to my jaw then my brow. And smear toward the tip of your nose. But NOT all the way in! Stop at the cherries of your cheeks, just up from the corner of your lips. Apply your liner, mascara and gloss. I do the cat eye with my liner. So it arches up at the outside, but only a tiny bit. Not dramatic. The mascara should be the same color as your eyebrows. If your eyebrows need a little shading, you can use mascara for that as well. But you'll need a brow comb/brush. Apply at the start of your brown, toward your nose, and only a tiny swipe. Then use your brush to spread it outward across your brow. If you have some stragglers (hairs that are below your brow, on your lid), just grab some tweezers and clear them off. That was my quick make up application. For more intense color, and other styles, you can find many ideas online. I LOVE LOVE LOVE kandeejohnson's Channel on youtube.com.  She is so amazing! She does her make up just like I do, and I have to admit, I stole my brows from her online. She's fantastic!!!! Check her out. Keep 'em coming!! amyisivy@gmail.com

I have another great note for you.......

Men- No, we can't hook up. No you can't get my number. No, I will not tell you which bar I work at. No, I will not be posting pictures on my site. If this is what you are here for, by all means, stay and stare at my page. Idiot.

Gentlemen- this is why we advertise such a difference in groups of men. There are some of you who genuinely care about your spouse, and are here to ask questions and seek advice. Please, by all means, stay, read, ask. Let's chat! I love you guys!

LADIES- I have got some GREAT letters from you!!! I am so glad so many people have passed my blog on! You ladies are amazing! Spectacular!

So, here is my current email received. It's actually something I just spoke about with a good friend of mine (don't worry girl, I won't post your name). LACK OF LIBIDO. You find it hard to be turned on for your man when he gets home. Men are visual creatures. They see something that looks like a nipple, and they are excited, and want to see more. Women tend to over think things. What if I'm not good, I didn't wash my hair today, I'm still fat. Your man does NOT care about any of that. I promise! If you are having a hard time being aroused. Check out some literotica. It's the new age trashy novel. Or use a good ol' fashioned trashy novel. There are so many, because they sell so well! I read them. Seriously. Read one before hubby gets home from work. Read one on your lunch break. Get worked up so you can think about it all day. Watch a video. Yes ladies, there are great sites for you too. Porn is for everyone. In all shapes and sizes (books, pictures, movies, whatever your pleasure may be). With that you may see, hear or read something you didn't even know you wanted to try. Something new you are into. Get yourself worked up. You can't expect them to do all the work. To my male readers- again, tell her she's amazing. Rub her back. Scratch her back. Rub her feet. I don't know what she's into, but you damn well should.



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Hey y'all :)

 I want to thank all of you that wrote to me, on facebook and to my email! I appreciate ALL comments and questions! Keep them coming!!!



MOST RECEIVED QUESTIONS  (I edited the words a bit. Some of you swear more than I do, yikes!):


#1 EMAIL (ten of this exact nature): I got a few emails from women that have tried dressing up daily, make up, lingerie, etc. and their husband or girlfriends looks at them like they ride the short bus. Do it again! Dress up. Put on make up. Put on lingerie. When he/she looks at you like that, say "I dressed up for you." Tell them why. Tell them you need attention. I will flat out tell my husband to tell me I look nice. "Tell me I'm pretty". Sometimes men have NO clue what is going on around them. They think "she's dressed up, did I forget an anniversary, birthday, crap! What did I forget?" That so called short bus face, is because they are waiting to get in trouble.


To that significant other- PAY ATTENTION! Tell her she's hot! Tell her that her butt looks great in those pants, or panties. Whatever she wore for you. And if it doesn't, LIE! Say "ya baby, I like that, but next time wear this..." Seriously, buy her something. Even if it's just a pair of panties. I bet she has a pair of heels that match in her closet. Most of us do. If not, buy her heels and undies. That you picked out. Chances are, she'll rock your world for that alone!

#2 EMAIL (I was SHOCKED that this was my second most received!!):  My previous post was about a train that rides both ways. If you didn't catch on to that, if she goes down, you go down. And ladies, go on strike. If he doesn't, you don't. It seems to be that many of your husbands or boyfriends expect it from you, and don't reciprocate. Tell them. This is where everyone here just needs to be honest with each other. Tell him the flat out truth.

And for the others that they reciprocate, but they aren't very good at it.... Tell them. Nicely. "You should try this..." Or "I don't like when you..." To rough, not rough enough, whatever the case may be. Oh, and a side note, there are videos, websites, books and all kinds of stuff you can both try out if you need some instruction on the matter.


TO EVERYONE~ Honesty is the best policy! If you can't say something face to face, write it, type it, text it, email mail it. Whatevs. Just get it out there. Let it be known! Whatever it is, get it out in the open. Most of the time, you're partner will not only appreciate the honesty, things will work a lot better for you both.


Keep the emails coming, or message me amyisivy@gmail.com   or   Ivy LaLure on facebook.

I have this conversation so often..........

It truly saddens me.

A bit of advice ladies... Dress up!. Not every day. Once a week, twice a week maybe. Stop wearing the same pony tail and dirty mom jeans. If you are lucky enough to have a husband that lets you know that you've had your pony tail in too long, and that you should toss on some blush, BE THANKFUL . To you that have a hubby that keeps quite, he's at my bar. Buying lap dances, tipping girls, and yep... bitching about you. The biggest complaint I hear from married men, is that their wives stopped trying. And don't give me that "I have kids, and work and a household to run" bull crap. I have four kids, a happy husband, a job, and a tidy house. Buy some rollers. It takes five minutes to put them in and five minutes to take them out. Run your fingers thru your hair, and it's done. For those with curly or unruly hair, use a flat iron. Or just wipe some sheen thru it. Put some make up on. Even if you don't care for the foundation, use eyeliner, eyeshadow, blush and gloss. It takes no more then ten minutes to apply make up. Turn your coffee pot on, and go get yourself ready. You don't have to make it a runway show. Just slap on some make up, and do your hair. Tell your hubby he's hot. Grab his ass in public. Keep him out of my bar. Keep doing your same ol same ol, and he's back to me. Spending your Mom Jeans money. Tee shirts and jeans are great, just not with stains and holes. Dress it up with a necklace. Rock it Target style. They have cute stuff, and it's cheap. And if your man is need need of some clean up himself, TELL HIM. Let him know. Buy him new cologne, deoderant, shirts, etc. He has no idea. men are NOT mind readers. They are Captain Oblivious to anything you seem to think they know. Tell them exactly what you want, out of life and love.

NOW, for those so called "Hot Moms"..... STOP IT. Don't dress like a slut infront of your kids' friends. It's gross. You're embarrassing your child. PS- Other women don't hate you because you're hot. They hate you because you are showing their kids that it's ok to look like a prostitute in the middle of the day, at a PTS meeting..... it's totally not. There's nothing wrong with rocking some cleavage, or tight jeans and heels. I do it daily. Just leave the half shirts in the 90's where they belong, and make sure your cleavage isn't all the way to your belly button.

GENTLEMEN- this will be a long one...... Tell your wife what you like. Be blunt. She doesn't know you hate her pony tail. She doesn't know you hate her jeans. Buy her new ones. Clothes you think are hot. "Borrow" her favorite jeans, go to the mall, and have the clerk match the sizes. Buy her the lingerie you think is hot. It will make her feel sexy, and you'll get laid more often. Notice that she put on make up and did her hair. Compliment her. Most women will not tell you what they want to hear. If they do, you are a LUCKY man! Tell her what you want out of life, not just for breakfast. THIS INCLUDES SEX. Be completely honest about what you want out of sex. Tell her what you like. And BTW the train downtown goes both ways. It's a give and take kinda ride.

So, I think that covers my thoughts for the day. If you have something you to discuss, hit me up. Send me an email. I am open to all conversations. amyisivy@gmail.com  I check it at least once a day.