Hey y'all :)

 I want to thank all of you that wrote to me, on facebook and to my email! I appreciate ALL comments and questions! Keep them coming!!!



MOST RECEIVED QUESTIONS  (I edited the words a bit. Some of you swear more than I do, yikes!):


#1 EMAIL (ten of this exact nature): I got a few emails from women that have tried dressing up daily, make up, lingerie, etc. and their husband or girlfriends looks at them like they ride the short bus. Do it again! Dress up. Put on make up. Put on lingerie. When he/she looks at you like that, say "I dressed up for you." Tell them why. Tell them you need attention. I will flat out tell my husband to tell me I look nice. "Tell me I'm pretty". Sometimes men have NO clue what is going on around them. They think "she's dressed up, did I forget an anniversary, birthday, crap! What did I forget?" That so called short bus face, is because they are waiting to get in trouble.


To that significant other- PAY ATTENTION! Tell her she's hot! Tell her that her butt looks great in those pants, or panties. Whatever she wore for you. And if it doesn't, LIE! Say "ya baby, I like that, but next time wear this..." Seriously, buy her something. Even if it's just a pair of panties. I bet she has a pair of heels that match in her closet. Most of us do. If not, buy her heels and undies. That you picked out. Chances are, she'll rock your world for that alone!

#2 EMAIL (I was SHOCKED that this was my second most received!!):  My previous post was about a train that rides both ways. If you didn't catch on to that, if she goes down, you go down. And ladies, go on strike. If he doesn't, you don't. It seems to be that many of your husbands or boyfriends expect it from you, and don't reciprocate. Tell them. This is where everyone here just needs to be honest with each other. Tell him the flat out truth.

And for the others that they reciprocate, but they aren't very good at it.... Tell them. Nicely. "You should try this..." Or "I don't like when you..." To rough, not rough enough, whatever the case may be. Oh, and a side note, there are videos, websites, books and all kinds of stuff you can both try out if you need some instruction on the matter.


TO EVERYONE~ Honesty is the best policy! If you can't say something face to face, write it, type it, text it, email mail it. Whatevs. Just get it out there. Let it be known! Whatever it is, get it out in the open. Most of the time, you're partner will not only appreciate the honesty, things will work a lot better for you both.


Keep the emails coming, or message me amyisivy@gmail.com   or   Ivy LaLure on facebook.